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Living with someone ends up being more of a liability – an infringement on your great, free lifestyle.” Jeremy, 41, is a good-looking American with an academic background and an attractive social life – the type that doesn’t leave girls indifferent. As men grow picky, Berlin’s independent, career-oriented thirtysomethings lose their patience, refusing to waste time with losers who think they’re ‘the one’, but aren’t sure.
Yet, surprisingly, Jeremy has never had a proper relationship. “I’m so busy all the time these days,” says Inge, 32, an office administrator fresh from a go-nowhere fling with a co-worker.
“After that ended, I decided I don’t have time for anything silly.” Forget about that dream dude Are Berlin women digging their own, solitary graves?
Some say if you can’t hook ‘em, join ‘em: “I’m not obsessed with looking or finding anymore,” says Silvia. And maybe after all, that monogamous relationship thing is not the way to go.
“He had to go through at least 20 names before he found someone who wasn’t taken or gay. They always have that ex or that former relationship in the background, whether it’s ‘Occupied’... But then I realised he would never invite me to his openings.
It was his plumber.” The few eligible men get snapped up with alarming speed. “I was at a party – mostly girls and couples; the few single guys there were total nerds. or artists As for the men who aren’t tied down with current or former romances? “The problem is there are too many people in this city who are just too busy with their own lives – and good luck with getting included in that,” says Silvia, an attractive, gregarious brunette from Argentina. There was his art – he was very ambitious – and his circle of friends. When I asked him about it he answered he needed ‘his space’.
Why set your heart on one when you can have an endless supply? “In Berlin, you surround yourself with ‘a family’ of friends and WG partners who will cover everyday emotional and practical needs.” Sex and romance come extra and are interchangeable and easily replaceable.If that person isn’t available when you are, move on.That is one great thing about Berlin; there are thousands of opportunities.He describes his current love life as a series of “confusing affairs”.Wrong time, wrong place Male or female, it might all come down to the fact that there’s no better place to live a comfortable and unencumbered single life well into your forties than Berlin. ” In addition, cheaper rents make the lone-wolf lifestyle infinitely easier in Berlin than in other European capitals.
“Sex or casual affairs are no problem, but when it comes to relationships, forget about it!