Dating for men in india
I’ve been doing some more research on the Indian men/white men vs Indian women/white women dating scene.I met a female NRI from the States, who now lives back in the Mumbai at the weekend, for a coffee. She had story after story about her troubles dating Indian men in Mumbai.They also resent their peers or boyfriends from home going back to India to find a bride, and feel as if the male double standards pervade this generation.It is not uncommon to have Indian men sleep with Indian girls from America, and marry women from India.
Back in the day, one of the biggest reasons why Indian men dated white women was because they were considered easy.
One man said,” These girls are good enough to be your girlfriends but not good enough to be your wife.”” “American Indian women believe that Indian men demand too much—they want their wives to keep fit, wear nice short dresses, speak the language, live in both Indian and America and worlds, cook Indian food, have a submissive nature.
India’s epics and films set unrealistic standards for Indian American women it is impossible for these women to emulate the self-sacrificing Sita who followed her husband to banishment in the forests for fourteen years.
Many man have said that Indian women brought up in America are too ”independent,” “too loose, too fast or too liberated,” and are not much interested in culture.
They are not to use to the women’s attitudes, and want women similar to their mothers.
My man decided he wanted me because the pickings amongst Indian women were slim to none.